When I read "Let Them Theory" I learnt adult relationship are not easy. It takes proximity, timing and energy. Then you have to step out of your comfort because they dont just happen, you have to be Intentional.
100%! I was kinda sleepwalking through my 30s lonely but not realizing I actually needed more friends and to make those friends, I had to put myself out there more. It wasn't and still isn't easy.
I'm in my 30s and it totally hits home. I have started also getting into communities where I meet like minded individuals and deepening my current little circle.
In my thirties I was relying too much on old friends and family, all busy with their own lives. It was my sister facing a terminal diagnosis who said ‘make some new friends, you’ll need them.’ That was a spur to action.
This is so true
When I read "Let Them Theory" I learnt adult relationship are not easy. It takes proximity, timing and energy. Then you have to step out of your comfort because they dont just happen, you have to be Intentional.
100%! I was kinda sleepwalking through my 30s lonely but not realizing I actually needed more friends and to make those friends, I had to put myself out there more. It wasn't and still isn't easy.
I'm in my 30s and it totally hits home. I have started also getting into communities where I meet like minded individuals and deepening my current little circle.
Very smart. I do really appreciate how connection-focused most women are. Us guys could learn a lot.
In my thirties I was relying too much on old friends and family, all busy with their own lives. It was my sister facing a terminal diagnosis who said ‘make some new friends, you’ll need them.’ That was a spur to action.